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Celebrating Reclamation Day – With Some Regrets

Written by Elizabeth Weedon
Celebrating Reclamation Day – With Some Regrets
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I’m sure I’m not alone in rejoicing once a year on “Reclamation Day” – that long-anticipated day when my last tenants of the season have departed and my beloved home is once again MINE.

No more worries about “Has the house run out of toilet paper or soap?!” or “Are the next guests going to be happy and write a glowing guest review?”  And, more importantly, at least in my case, “Is the poor, ol’ (60-year-old) house going to hold up through another season without a leaking faucet, an appliance breaking, a water pump tank exploding, or the septic backing up?”  (Yes, I’ve had each of those happen on occasion over the past 40 years of renting the house. And, yes, inevitably each incident waiting until after the rental season has begun, of course!)

The older I get, the more relieved I am to have weathered another rental season.

But the feelings are bittersweet, too. For most of us, the end of our hosting season also means the end of the summer season on the Cape and Islands. In my case, it’s a time to steal a few, cherished weekends in my Happy Place – without the anxieties of preparing the house for rental that dog each visit here in the spring. But before I know it, the nights are getting cool, and it’s time to close up the house for the long winter.

So it’s a time of celebration and relief, but also a time of sadness and regret that another treasured summer season has flown by, and I’ll have only memories of my Happy Place to sustain me until next spring.

I am reminded of Edgar Allan Poe’s “A Dream Within a Dream,” in which he writes:

I stand amid the roar
Of a surf-tormented shore,
And I hold within my hand
Grains of the golden sand —
How few! yet how they creep
Through my fingers to the deep

Poignant memories of cookouts with our grown children – back with us from afar to what is their Happy Place, too – are like those grains of golden sand slipping through my fingers to the deep.  The inexorable passage of time.

But from now until next summer, minus the long winter in between, my beloved Vineyard home is mine. And I treasure every moment I am here and able to enjoy it before, once again, having to share it with others.

Are you rejoicing that the summer season is over? If so, do you also regret that it is?

About the author

Elizabeth Weedon

Elizabeth Weedon - Although I’ve worked for WeNeedaVacation.com since 2008, I’ve been a loyal homeowner on the site since early 1998, just a few months after the website was launched by the Talmadges. I grew up summering on the Vineyard and have managed my family's rental home there since the mid-1980’s. I’m passionately devoted to the Vineyard – and to WeNeedaVacation.com, which I credit with enabling me to hold onto the special property that has been in our family since the 1920’s. An enthusiastic member of the WNAV.com Homeowner Support Team, I am particularly involved with our new listers, providing assistance with the sign-up process and advice about how to create the most effective listing to ensure their booking success with us. I have recently taken over our press and public relations needs. And, with owner Joan Talmadge, I am also responsible for editing and writing much of the content on our website, our monthly newsletters, and the blog posts. My husband and I live in Wellesley where we have raised our 2 grown kids and our Black Lab, Maisie. Email Elizabeth

2 Comments

  • Thank you Elizabeth. Yes, i feel it’s nice to end the season and not have to worry about the trivial things (or big things) that can happen. We always keep in contact with anyone staying at our cottage. We contact initially to make sure all is OK and let them know how if they need to contact us. We have great service people (and neighbors) if there is an emergency. Although we are over 400 miles away we are at the cottage throughout the year, including special holidays. It’s the draw of the Cape and its magic that brings us there.

  • Beautifully expressed! I have shared those feelings, but thank you for writing about them so eloquently.

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